Aggieland hat geschrieben: ↑Di 1. Jul 2025, 14:05
MeterPaffay hat geschrieben: ↑Di 1. Jul 2025, 13:59
Aggieland hat geschrieben: ↑Di 1. Jul 2025, 13:46
yeah, i was at fusion. I know German people dont talk to non German speakers unless they are travelling, but I was shocked because of everything I heard about it. Maybe because you are German you had a different experience.
Its not that germans dont want to talk to you, the more likely explanation is that they dont know English well enough to strike up a conversation. Most people I know are in fact somewhat insecure when speaking English as they usually dont use it that much, and the variety of substances many like to enjoy of course doesnt help with foreign language skills or the confidence when it comes to that. Many are embarassed when they start speaking English and then inevitably stumble over words or cant find the right expression for what they are trying to say.
Many visitors are germans, which unforuntately makes it harder for non german speakers to meet new people. Try not to take that personally, sorry to hear you couldnt connect to them.
Most of the germans I know do their best to meet non germans, a shame you didnt get to meet them.
If you happen to come next year, come to Eclipse for example. They do drug education and harm reduction, but are also there for general advice and help, and I know that they also have several international people every year in their team and people fluent in English coming each year, so if youre looking to hang our or have a conversation about whatever, maybe go see them, they are a nice and friendly bunch of people and you most likely will meet someone to hang out with
Lol I didnt say Germans have a particular thing against me (or do they?

) but I didnt feel it was like a huge family which I did feel at Glastonbury which everyone who hasnt been there from Germany think it is shit and commercial but it felt like I was within family. There is that feeling missing here, especially being so socialist. I even saw a girl looking for food in the trash, I couldnt buy her anything because I was broke myself but I was shocked nobody else noticed or gave her food. Eclipse had a bunch of people lying down cause of drugs, I dont want therapy at a festival, I already do that at home. I just want to have fun with strangers and connect, it shouldnt require asking for help where people go when they are having a bad trip. I did have conversations but it always feel like there is a wall in this country like you cant get through to people like in other lands, just thought Fusion would make that slightly different, that is all. I loved the festival I would go back but I didnt left full of emotions and a sense of camaradery and like the world can be a better place from the festival high, that's all.
I think you misunderstood me a little there

Yes, the job of Eclipse is drugs and the people doing them, but they are not only doing that.
You dont have to consume anything, you dont have to be in a situation where you need help or advice for anything to come there and talk to them.
They have those taking care of people having a bad time, but also another team of people just talking to the general festival pubic, coming not only for drug advice, but also just a general conversation, a tea, free snacks and chewing gum for example. They are always open for any conversations and possible hangouts after their shift

Thats what I was trying to say, if youre at a foreign festival where many people come with friends and are already connected in a social circle, that means for you that youre going to have to make a more conscious and dedicated effort to meet people in order to overcome that barrier.
Which is easier if you go see a social circle that is specifically made out of friendly and sociable people (otherwise they wouldnt be doing that job).
And if you meet someone there, you have someone who can take you around and introduce you to others, and then one thing will lead to another and you will be having a wild adventure somewhere
